We often try to manage our lives by restricting something unhealthy.  Another approach that often has just as much if not more power is to add something healthy in. 

It takes motivation, courage, and perseverance for a family to work itself out of its unhealthy state and to develop something new that will work better for everyone. It takes more that dealing with the presenting problem. What is the tension in your family saying to you about the intricate system of illusions and myths that the family relies on to keep it whole?  

We all have desires in our hearts, whether it is to find a beach treasure or to be happy in our relationships, jobs, or even how we see ourselves.  We search for things and we make meaning of the journey it takes us to find it.  Sometimes along that journey we lose perspective.

Have you ever been in that place where you know something needs to change or is about to change whether you like it or not?  You know your about to start a new journey but where does it begin